Having many girl-friends as social proof:

[Piers Nivens]

Is it always good to show this fact to a woman you are interested in

OR

can it backfire? (I.e. "omG, he is always around women, probably sleepa with every woman. I want a guy who doesnt hang so much with women, faithful etc")

How can we use them as social proof but make sure the girl of interest doesnt start thinking stupid ****?

 

[Tictac]

If you have to show her, you've already lost.

 

[Longshot]

I second what Tictac wrote, and he is right because why "show" them that (or other similar facts) as social proof? Imagine James Bond putting an effort into showing a gal he may be interested in that he is socially worthy... actually, he wouldn't; it would just come off naturally, and he really doesn't "go after" women anyway- they come to him. I'm not recommending to be James- I mean, who can, anyway?- but to learn from such a figure. No need to show her that as she would feel it.

 

[Piers Nivens]

I didnt literally mean show, I meant her knowing getting to knowing etc, so whether I should hide the fact or not.

 

[thevilittletroll]

using girl friends without a doubt works as social proof. it triggers the pre-selected attraction switch. just make sure those girls are being super flirty and touching you a lot. every girl in the bar will notice this. the trick with the girl you like is this, you must be congruent with the fact that lots of girls like you. by the way, this should be a normal everyday part of your bar game anyway.