"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Having a temporary girl, ok or not?

jeffthechef

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i finally narrowed my list of about 8 to 2

i'm sure i'm going to ask one out (just out) to some place this weekend and i was wondering...
is it wrong to bring a girl out with the knowledge it'll probably lead somewhere, while also knowing you would probably go after another girl you were more interested in if she happened to be single again?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lil hooligan

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live life to the fullest
 

Five To One

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Some guys would say its wrong and some would say its right. Theres no correct answer.

Do what you want.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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have lots of girls, dont cling
 

jeffthechef

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haha...love the replies...
this reminds me of a movie..anyone see "the wood"
a movie about this black kid moving to california and growing up tight with these two guys he meets and they're constantly trying to game girls...well anyways it's sort of like that movie

i shouldn't be aiming for a relatinoship immediately...i possibly should be wanting to hold it off..hm anyways..i'll probably ask that one girl out this weekend and escalate kino and all that..and continue to keep it up witht he others

thanks
 
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