"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Having a temporary girl, ok or not?

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jeffthechef

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i finally narrowed my list of about 8 to 2

i'm sure i'm going to ask one out (just out) to some place this weekend and i was wondering...
is it wrong to bring a girl out with the knowledge it'll probably lead somewhere, while also knowing you would probably go after another girl you were more interested in if she happened to be single again?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lil hooligan

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live life to the fullest
 
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Five To One

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Some guys would say its wrong and some would say its right. Theres no correct answer.

Do what you want.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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have lots of girls, dont cling
 
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jeffthechef

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haha...love the replies...
this reminds me of a movie..anyone see "the wood"
a movie about this black kid moving to california and growing up tight with these two guys he meets and they're constantly trying to game girls...well anyways it's sort of like that movie

i shouldn't be aiming for a relatinoship immediately...i possibly should be wanting to hold it off..hm anyways..i'll probably ask that one girl out this weekend and escalate kino and all that..and continue to keep it up witht he others

thanks
 
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