"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Having a temporary girl, ok or not?

jeffthechef

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i finally narrowed my list of about 8 to 2

i'm sure i'm going to ask one out (just out) to some place this weekend and i was wondering...
is it wrong to bring a girl out with the knowledge it'll probably lead somewhere, while also knowing you would probably go after another girl you were more interested in if she happened to be single again?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lil hooligan

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live life to the fullest
 

Five To One

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Some guys would say its wrong and some would say its right. Theres no correct answer.

Do what you want.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Pdizzzzzzle

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have lots of girls, dont cling
 

jeffthechef

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haha...love the replies...
this reminds me of a movie..anyone see "the wood"
a movie about this black kid moving to california and growing up tight with these two guys he meets and they're constantly trying to game girls...well anyways it's sort of like that movie

i shouldn't be aiming for a relatinoship immediately...i possibly should be wanting to hold it off..hm anyways..i'll probably ask that one girl out this weekend and escalate kino and all that..and continue to keep it up witht he others

thanks
 
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