"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The_Mole

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This place seems different...

hope u guys can stop being lonely and find girlfriends

good luck
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The sense of community that used to exist is gone and between the thug wannabes and male victims now populating the place it has, shall we say, diminished in quality.

Hopefully it will improve soon...
 

AC/DC

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Originally posted by The_Mole
This place seems different...

hope u guys can stop being lonely and find girlfriends

good luck
HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

It's true!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PRMoon

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
This guy seems to be counting his years in twos...
Yeah his last post was in May of 04....i guess that's pretty close to 2 years...but not quite.

I doubt the air of community will ever exist again like it was once upon a time on this site...there are too many lurking trolls and posers here to form serious bonds anymore.
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
The sense of community that used to exist is gone and between the thug wannabes and male victims now populating the place it has, shall we say, diminished in quality.

Hopefully it will improve soon...
Yeah, seems to be very few now that you would even consider taking advice from!
 

diplomatic_lies

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Big communities tend to be filled more more trash.

Just like big cities have high crime and crap elements. Whereas small towns tend to be more community-focused.
 

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i agree

When i first joined this board there were lots of members i knew and liked. It doesnt seem that way anymore though.
 
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