"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The_Mole

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This place seems different...

hope u guys can stop being lonely and find girlfriends

good luck
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The sense of community that used to exist is gone and between the thug wannabes and male victims now populating the place it has, shall we say, diminished in quality.

Hopefully it will improve soon...
 

AC/DC

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Originally posted by The_Mole
This place seems different...

hope u guys can stop being lonely and find girlfriends

good luck
HAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

It's true!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PRMoon

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
This guy seems to be counting his years in twos...
Yeah his last post was in May of 04....i guess that's pretty close to 2 years...but not quite.

I doubt the air of community will ever exist again like it was once upon a time on this site...there are too many lurking trolls and posers here to form serious bonds anymore.
 

CLOONEY

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
The sense of community that used to exist is gone and between the thug wannabes and male victims now populating the place it has, shall we say, diminished in quality.

Hopefully it will improve soon...
Yeah, seems to be very few now that you would even consider taking advice from!
 

diplomatic_lies

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Big communities tend to be filled more more trash.

Just like big cities have high crime and crap elements. Whereas small towns tend to be more community-focused.
 

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i agree

When i first joined this board there were lots of members i knew and liked. It doesnt seem that way anymore though.
 
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