You'll only dox yourself if you provide the exact city you live in + Your exact address, none of which I'm asking for here. Tell me what state you live in, and BEFORE the end of business today, I can provide you with some leads on securing a different residence
This is a really nice offer tbh
I always like the quote:There an old sage maxim
“Never give advice.
The wise don’t need it
And fools don’t heed it”
I don’t get the point of these Game forums at all.
Every advice thread seems to go this way.
Is anyone here learning anything at all?? Or getting any better with women?? I highly doubt.
@needimprovement250
I’ll restate it what I said before , just go and pay for play.
An escort cannot cost $3K where you are. Nope, can’t believe that. That’s BS. It’ll be $1000-$1200 tops.
Go to a brothel and bang a few cheap h00kers that look acceptable to you.
Or fly to Las Vegas. $200-$300 there I’m sure x
There’s no excuse.
you’re situation is completely cooked mate.
You’re basically a sub5 smv male and you’re fvcked basically. It’s going to take years to improve for you.
check out this channel on YT and learn why. It has some brutal truths but better to accept the facts and live in reality. great channel.
Godspeed brother
I'm somewhat close to your age; I have never even had a girlfriend my whole life. Want to know what I did? I went to an event with lots of people and walked up to three 18yo HB8s. I have been an extreme introvert, living as a shut-in for years. In my mind, it was like stepping into an active war zone. I did everything wrong that I could have done wrong, and all that happened was she told me, "Sorry, I have a boyfriend" while blushing. The other two girls giggled. And I must have blushed more than all of them.
I'm, confident that along the way this will resolve itself.
Harsh but true.
When I first ended up on out on my ass unexpectedly at 17(Cops kicked in the door at 7AM one morning, arrested the folks who owned the place. Social services took my siblings into custody, informed me that I'd aged out of their concern, instructed me to scram), I had no idea what to do, and someone had to provide yours truly similar intel. This is me paying it forward
I don’t know who Neil Strauss is, other than he wrote a book. But this absolutely doesn’t take years to accomplish and like I already said, banging hookers doesn’t speed up the process anyway. It doesn’t take years to build your body up in the gym, you’ll see noticeable gains in 6-8 months but you have to stick with your routine. If you work with a dating coach, research game and use resources the info available on this site, Neil’s book maybe, and go through some trial and error in the field with women, it can absolutely be achieved in less time that years.
Oh you can find out a lot even by just the state a person lives in. Like I already said, I’ve looked multiple times in my area, nothing like that is available.
1. I’m not making excuses, I have already stated on this thread what I plan to do in order to improve multiple times.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Props to you for pushing yourself out of your comfort zone and forcing yourself to go do that. Like I did say in my last reply to you, I am willing to attend singles events to get myself started. Maybe that would be better than online dating because it requires me to interact with women in person instead of via messaging over the phone, not much different from what we’re doing right here. One thing I do like about the story you shared is you seem to be making progress at a pretty respectable pace, Cheeky_James seems to think this type of improvement with women will take years to achieve. I personally don’t believe that and your story proves that it doesn’t take years to achieve.
Dude, you don’t need to do that. Why are you so insistent that I need to have been moved out at this very moment when I have already said that it would make my financial situation even worse than it currently is, and that I will be moved out in the near future anyway since that is my first order of business after getting a better paying job after education, and that my education is almost done? Infer what you want, but I’m not taking on unnecessary financial hardship when I can move out with ease in the near future.
Absolutely. One guy at the gym once told me, "If you want to look like you are on gear, you just have to train like you are on gear". Of course he was a total meathead. But he's got a point. If you put close to superhuman effort into something, you naturally will get incredible results.
You misunderstand to some degree. The thing is, I have already spent years on my physique and on money. Humans have been incomparably more scary to me, and I was "saving" it for last. If, at the peak of Mount Everest, an HB would have been guaranteed to be waiting for me, you better believe I would have gone up all the way. I would have even carried her down if I had to. Even if it took me 10 years to get ready. So I did everything else first. My main weakness is that I'm the most socially awkward person there is. Hence, I ultimately failed to achieve anything in this story.
The Starbucks barista doesn't HAVE to be polite to you either... Given the difficulties such companies are having hiring solid employees these days, most no longer hesitate to keep everyone who simply shows up on time on the payroll, no mater how unpersonable they are. Do you respond dismissively to such a barista, or express genunine gratitude, for going above and beyond the call of duty? The same principle applies here. That audiobook I linked prior https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...t-my-life-together.286660/page-2#post-3198433 discusses this
Your game plan for improvement of looks etc and money is fine.
But at least you’re working on improving your social skills and being less awkward. I wouldn’t really say I’m socially awkward anymore, I was as a teenager, but I think most teenagers are to a certain extent. I’m sure there will be plenty of awkward moments when I jump into dating, but I just gotta learn from them and move past it, and hopefully awkward moments become less frequent as time goes on and the both of us learn more about it.
Yeah I’ve had two lays, my mindset that you highlighted here is the biggest problem and I can’t seem to shake it. I’m going into this with a mindset of I’ve already lost because I’m so late to the game and don’t have experience, so this is just a humiliation ritual with rejection guaranteed each time. It is absolutely holding me back.
I actually don’t get anxious around women, I have friends that are women and I was even roommates with a woman previously. So it’s not like I fumble and trip over my words, can’t make eye contact, and struggle to keep a conversation going. It’s more that I’m very pessimistic and lack confidence and always have in regards to dating. I won’t go to a traditional therapist for this, but I am willing to seek outside help to solve it. There’s a dating coach who specializes in helping to solve a lot of these issues and I might hire him. I regret not solving this years ago and dating as a teen like you and do many others did, but it is what it is at this point.
