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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Have you or any other men you know actively friend zoned a woman temporarily?

Ricky

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Have you or any other men you known actively friend zoned a woman that was pursuing them to put them on ice for a bit and later reactivated them for a relationship?

We always here of women putting men in a friend zone, but what about men putting women in the friend zone?

Say you had a woman showing a ton of interest, how long could you hold her off and then reactivate her for. Put her on ice for a while. I know its a risky move since women tend to have tons of options with guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've never heard of this or observed this happening.
 

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Have you or any other men you known actively friend zoned a woman that was pursuing them to put them on ice for a bit and later reactivated them for a relationship?

We always here of women putting men in a friend zone, but what about men putting women in the friend zone?
I've done it many times when I was younger but as I've gotten older, I've learned that if I'm not interested in her right away, then it's best to just reject her and be done with it.
 

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I have orbiters, does that count?
I think so. To me there is a reason due to work or pending divorce why a man might want to keep a woman on hold and was wondering if actively friend zoning them would work
 

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I've friendzoned a few girls, but was never able to reactivate a sexual relationship with them. Once their ego's take a hit, that's it. They are fully aware of "friend zoning", unlike most men with little experince.

I've never heard of any guy pulling this off either.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've friendzoned a few girls, but was never able to reactivate a sexual relationship with them. Once their ego's take a hit, that's it. They are fully aware of "friend zoning", unlike most men with little experince.

I've never heard of any guy pulling this off either.
i would have thought friend zoning them might make them want you more

its a little different than the preemptive breakup which supposedly has some power too
 

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i've tried it a couple times and it went horribly. one girl got upset with me for not holding/touching her when we were lying down on the beach. we had already fvcked before i friendzoned her btw. i think it can only work if you do it asap, like on the first meetup, but even then i don't think it will go over well. it might only work if you meet women through a social circle or something like that
 
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