Just in case you don't know what a red light green light party is it's a party where you wear different colors (like glow sticks) depending on your relationship status. Green for single and wanting to hook up, yellow for maybe wanting to hook up, and red for in a relationship and not wanting to hook up. If you've been to one what did you think? I'm thinking about going to one on the weekend at this club but since I've never been to one before I was wondering if they're any fun. Thanks.
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Have you guys been to a red light green light party? What did you think?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
Never been to one either but I've been thinking about it.
If I went I would almost definitely wear red regardless of my actual relationship status since I bet red dudes would be more successful anyways.
Go try it out and see how it is. Hit on all the different colors and let me know who responds best
If I went I would almost definitely wear red regardless of my actual relationship status since I bet red dudes would be more successful anyways.
Go try it out and see how it is. Hit on all the different colors and let me know who responds best
Not sure why you think guys wearing red would be more successful. Unless the girls were just after a fvck and don't might getting with a guy in a relationship. I'd think yellow would be better, at least then you don't look like your only there to find someone to fvck, but that's just my opinion.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Green guys should be some horny bastards
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Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
Because before you even start the conversation you are already presumably:
A) Already successful with girls
B) Not interested in her
C) Not there just to hit on / pick her up
Which are three good things to have going in your favor.
And then when the time comes around that they're into you but worried you're in a relationship, it's just "Oh, I thought the whole red/green idea was stupid... this was the only shirt I had clean anyways." or some such.
My logic anyways.
Roy
Don Juan
Its called a 'traffic light' party. . . Yeah they have them in the uk, its quite popular with the university student parties.
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