"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Have you ever "used" a gf(committed relationship)for a quick morning nut?

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By use I mean, she's half awake, you slip her shorts/sweat pants/underwear off and just do it from the side for a couple of minutes nut and that's it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thatfeel said:
By use I mean, she's half awake, you slip her shorts/sweat pants/underwear off and just do it from the side for a couple of minutes nut and that's it?
No, but i did wake up in the middle of the night with a one night stand and put her hand on my d!ck and she gave me an HJ. She didn't say anything or really move around.....honestly i think she was still asleep. weird
 

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I wouldn't really call it 'using' especially if you're in a relationship. You're in it for the same thing. Most girls would enjoy it. You need to bust a nut, that shouldn't be a problem (unless your doing it every single day without fail.) I do that with my GF when I feel like it. She has no problem with it.
 

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Perfectly acceptable behaviour... I am a big fan of a quick morning nut buster. Helps clear my mind (believe it or not)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i did that a couple of times with some girls. all of them did it, except one but she was weird anyway. they usually do it, even if they aren't in the mood. if they care for you, they do it. only thing for me, if i see they are not getting off off it too, i get bored and it destroys the mood.
 

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To properly rephrase: Why HAVEN'T you used your girl for a quick nut?
 

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What else are you supposed to do with morning wood?
 

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lol, I guess I just don't want to have to deal with resentment for "i only enjoyed it for a few minutes". But as you all know anyway my gf is old, so. But I feel like a lot of the same concepts still apply.

Someone said if she cares for you, she'll let you do it, and I can see that. Whenever we are getting it on, sometimes when I stop to "reclaim" myself, she'll actually continue to work me to make me finish(which makes me feel secure that I won't have to face the resentment but it's annoying too because putting on a good performance requires concentration), which is honestly kind of annoying, because I want it to as equally pleasing for her, but at the same time I could see that at her age sex probably doesn't mean all the same things and doesn't have much of the appeal it did and just wants to finish. But I mean, 4/5 times anyway I get her off through oral anyway.
 

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CrimsonPanther said:
i did that a couple of times with some girls. all of them did it, except one but she was weird anyway. they usually do it, even if they aren't in the mood. if they care for you, they do it. only thing for me, if i see they are not getting off off it too, i get bored and it destroys the mood.
Yes I can totally relate to this also, my gf likes the idea of being ****ed in her sleep or being like half asleep or something, but half the time she's awake anyway and just "faking sleep" and lies there like a starfish to be manipulated, and that's just lame and annoying and kills the mood, no matter how horny I am.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Unfortunately a current hurdle I'm dealing with is that over our winter vacation she put on a few pounds and is feeling really insecure about it which means she doesn't feel sexy which mean she isn't really putting out as much. It's not like I make mean comments, TBH I think she still looks fine, and I make that clear via game. Annoying though, as usual.
 

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PairsPlusRoyalFlush said:
They use me for that
Yeah

Have you ever been in an LTR with a freakin nympho? get woken up every morning at 4am with someone tugging on your very asleep crank shaft. Gets annoying after about the first time.

Girls on the other hand just have to lay there. The only problem with busting a "quick nut" is that you may awaken the beast, and, she's usually not into the quick stuff. So, whenever you do that, just be prepared for a 20 minute workout session.
 

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Had an ex I used to love to bang when she was drunk, never remembered a thing next day. Kinda fun in a naughty kinda way.. lol
 
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