"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Have you ever known non-fat chicks that dance to heavy-metal songs?

MatureDJ

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I was watching some music videos with songs from this era, and it got me thinking.

This is a question to those who were of age during the glory days of heavy-metal glam-rock (roughly consistent with the disco era of the late '70s to early '80s, LOL). It seemed that whatever parties I had attended back then in which these metal songs were playing, there were never any slender chicks that were dancing to them, and they would always be on the side. Of course, it could have just been that the slender chicks were always with some guy, and they never felt the need to dance to attract attention - and that the slender chicks that did like to dance to heavy metal were busy stripping, LOL. Of course, now that I think about it, there weren't a whole lot of attractive chicks that would attend such parties. :mad:

Now when I say dance, I don't mean lazily pumping with the music, but actual dancing. :rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi MDJ,
Filipina Women will Dance to anything...I call them Tea Baggers,as they just jump up and down...But they are certainly happy.
 

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That is a song that one always hears at a strip joint.
Def Leppard's "Pour Some Sugar on Me" and Motley Crue's "Girls, Girls, Girls" are hard rock songs that are frequently heard at strip clubs.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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