"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Have you ever cried over a girl?

rushing dude 123

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When i was 15 yeah, haha i cried so badly in my bedroom because i never got her when school finished.....then i sat in my room and browsed my computer
RD:"whats sosuave" (CLICK) haha
then i read the dj bible after a long while reading and reading and reading and sleeping and reading and reading etc.. trying to find the answer, why i was not able to get her, what is the answer. THEN BINGO....its because i never asked.
RD: WOW ASKING A GIRL OUT THATS GENIUS, WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I cried for a girl, like a girl, when I was 18. It wasn't just crying, it was painful face distorted crying like I had tidal waves waiting to pour out of me. I cried often in those times. Then I became numb to life. I screwed up in school, at 20 decided to go to college even then I couldn't concentrate on myself. At 23, finally now with the help of sosuave, I am able to understand. I recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend and I remember looking out my window at night, I tried crying for some reason I couldn't cry. Weird.
 

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Yes I did for the first time recently. I am on a path of intense self improvement and enlightenment. Crying was the best thing but in a private place. It was very cathartic.
 

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Very long time ago, i cried badly like a little puzzy. I could not eat, sleep and stop that painful feeling you get right in your chest right above your stomach (you know what im talkin about) i was really broken up after trying and trying to make my long time ex work it out. only led to more heartache and tears. I didnt have so suave but hanging with my best friends helped me get through. Although i went through all those tears and that extreme sadness i had in my chest, I have never been the same again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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