"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you ever cried over a girl?

rushing dude 123

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When i was 15 yeah, haha i cried so badly in my bedroom because i never got her when school finished.....then i sat in my room and browsed my computer
RD:"whats sosuave" (CLICK) haha
then i read the dj bible after a long while reading and reading and reading and sleeping and reading and reading etc.. trying to find the answer, why i was not able to get her, what is the answer. THEN BINGO....its because i never asked.
RD: WOW ASKING A GIRL OUT THATS GENIUS, WHY DIDN'T I THINK OF THAT lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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san1

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I cried for a girl, like a girl, when I was 18. It wasn't just crying, it was painful face distorted crying like I had tidal waves waiting to pour out of me. I cried often in those times. Then I became numb to life. I screwed up in school, at 20 decided to go to college even then I couldn't concentrate on myself. At 23, finally now with the help of sosuave, I am able to understand. I recently broke up with my ex-girlfriend and I remember looking out my window at night, I tried crying for some reason I couldn't cry. Weird.
 

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Yes I did for the first time recently. I am on a path of intense self improvement and enlightenment. Crying was the best thing but in a private place. It was very cathartic.
 

In2theGame

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Very long time ago, i cried badly like a little puzzy. I could not eat, sleep and stop that painful feeling you get right in your chest right above your stomach (you know what im talkin about) i was really broken up after trying and trying to make my long time ex work it out. only led to more heartache and tears. I didnt have so suave but hanging with my best friends helped me get through. Although i went through all those tears and that extreme sadness i had in my chest, I have never been the same again.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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