Have you ever been thirst trapped in conversation?

[itouchyou]

Just thinking back to this older woman I conversed with on a flight a while back. She was saying she lived nearby to my suburb (this was false), that her husband travelled for work, etc.

What's their impression of you when you don't fall for any of it? I just remember thinking to myself - this is too good to be true. She seemed genuine at the time based on her body language later on, but I was skeptical.

They do this for validation right? Think she was surprised that I didn't fall for it. Normally with women my age it wouldn't be an issue, but older married women - was interesting trying to interpret the reasoning behind it. Never did message her, but I might still say hello to see if we could be friends.

 

[Westminster]

Why would you want to be her friend?

 

[itouchyou]

Why would you want to be her friend?

She gave me some legitimately good advice, and I liked her company. Just one of those rare people I meet every now and then that I really clicked with.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Married woman.

Full stop. Do not wonder. Do not analyze.

STOP

Invest your time elsewhere.

 

[itouchyou]

Married woman.

Full stop. Do not wonder. Do not analyze.

STOP

Invest your time elsewhere.

I have invested elsewhere. She's in her 50s in a happy marriage and very well off, I'm not a threat. My question was more game related, not asking for advice on getting with her romantically (I'm not).

 

[Redwood]

It happens, but like the others said here, I would invest my time in other endeavors right now.

If her advice proves to be lucrative then keep her around strictly for business.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Taking your d out is the nuclear option

 

[itouchyou]

Married women love to get the side D. The majority do. There are outliers though that will stay in their vznilla sex lives or dead bedrooms though.

You think they ever test the waters just to see if they can still court younger men?

Seems like this one was just seeing what she could get away with while she was alone/away from her husband.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You think they ever test the waters just to see if they can still court younger men?

Seems like this one was just seeing what she could get away with

OP, this is woman in general.

So yes, she was phucking with you and thinking nothing of it, as mechanically as breathing.

Also, older women have decades of manipulation experience and a heavier thirst for validation, so this is what you get.

 

[itouchyou]

OP, this is woman in general.

So yes, she was phucking with you and thinking nothing of it, as mechanically as breathing.

Also, older women have decades of manipulation experience and a heavier thirst for validation, so this is what you get.

Yea true. I'm just glad I didn't take any of her bait.

Found out she is extremely wealthy though.. like fuk you money, and she looks like Monica Bellucci when she's dolled up. Would've passed the boner test if she looked like that when we met. Very materialistic as well.

Still, good company just based on her personality. I'll reach out.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Yea true. I'm just glad I didn't take any of her bait.

Found out she is extremely wealthy though.. like fuk you money, and she looks like Monica Bellucci when she's dolled up. Would've passed the boner test if she looked like that when we met. Very materialistic as well.

Still, good company just based on her personality. I'll reach out.

If you do, give her sh1t about her bsing about her location. lol.

Also, if she truly has fuk you money, she may be prone to boredom and open to fooling around. Just compliance check her hard.

 

[itouchyou]

If you do, give her sh1t about her bsing about her location. lol.

Also, if she truly has fuk you money, she may be prone to boredom and open to fooling around. Just compliance check her hard.

I'd have to admit I know where she lives, unless she offers up that info. Don't know her well enough to call her out like that yet

Every indication I've seen of her personal life shows me she could be the type to fool around.. but it could just be misperception. Indian women are chaste.. and this one is better looking than any I've seen my own age. Physique/face, skin, dress sense.. she is a 9, easy.

Though, it wasn't my goal to be more than friends tbh.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

She's not unchaste if no one knows. Just be sure to sexually flirt when the opp presents itself. That way you'll know for sure.

 

[itouchyou]

She's not unchaste if no one knows. Just be sure to sexually flirt when the opp presents itself. That way you'll know for sure.

I find it odd she would take such good care of herself and dress the way she does just for her husband. Something else is up.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I find it odd she would take such good care of herself and dress the way she does just for her husband. Something else is up.

You can't phuck around if you don't find out