Illusionist
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of your ethnicity? If so, tell us your story.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I thought it was race initially, but looking back now, it was mainly a lack of game. Sure there are some I bump into every now and then who simply wouldn't date anyone of my race, but I'm too busy with others who are open to it to give a sh!t.Tear Gas said:Have you guys proved for sure it was cause of your race or just a lack of game/attraction?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
wutangfinancial said:I'm gonna tell you a secret:
white girls are very attracted to men of other races. Very. They just feel societal pressure not to date them, which secretly makes them more attracted. I know this from my sister.
how do they feel about Asian guys? i know a couple of white girls that are totally into Asian...but those are far and few...wutangfinancial said:I'm gonna tell you a secret:
white girls are very attracted to men of other races. Very. They just feel societal pressure not to date them, which secretly makes them more attracted. I know this from my sister.
I've met plenty of white and black girls who dig Asian guysKen785 said:how do they feel about Asian guys? i know a couple of white girls that are totally into Asian...but those are far and few...
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
^^^case in point.qstorm501 said:Umm you guys make too big of a deal about race ..if your a halfway decent looking guy and your game is tight you should have no problem pulling women OF ALL RACES!!