"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Have you ever been rejected because

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lildevil

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Been rejected by ethnicity many times before theirs like a strong barrier between ...nicaraguans(im from nicaragua) and cubans...I don't know why so when they ask me...I always say I will tell you later(come on don't do that..ha)....
 

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lol, I am Hispanic myself and I have never heard of this Nicaraguan/Cuban vendetta.
 

Someone Much cooler

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yeah im native american and afro-american, my boy is hatian and my other boy is puerto rican. We deal with it all the time @ college when we try to talk to the preppy white girls.
 

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Have you guys proved for sure it was cause of your race or just a lack of game/attraction?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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j-flex

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never been rejected by my race, in fact girls love me more.

i guess thats because im a white mexican, i just happen to have black hair and brown eyes and the white latino look.
 

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Viet/Asian here.

Tear Gas said:
Have you guys proved for sure it was cause of your race or just a lack of game/attraction?
I thought it was race initially, but looking back now, it was mainly a lack of game. Sure there are some I bump into every now and then who simply wouldn't date anyone of my race, but I'm too busy with others who are open to it to give a sh!t.

It's a little harder for minorities but not something you can't overcome with some work. It's mostly just an extra inner game issue a minority guy has to deal with. How big an issue it is, is entirely in the guy's head.
 

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Asian here too. Agree w/ jitterbug
 

Someone Much cooler

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actually i get proof all the time, i look @ the guys the date in the past, i look at the other guys they are attracted to, sometimes i slyly even ask em "u eva been wit a black guy b4" alotta times they respond, "I would look, but i would never do it". alot of it has to do with social standing and alot of it has to do wit what their fam might say and also how sheltered they are. It works out okay tho because im not usually attracted to most white women! i prefer black, spanish, asian or middle eastern, but have dated white women in the past.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wutangfinancial said:
I'm gonna tell you a secret:

white girls are very attracted to men of other races. Very. They just feel societal pressure not to date them, which secretly makes them more attracted. I know this from my sister.

This is true as hell. They get fantasies and stuff...especially about black guys...some white girls that is.
 

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wutangfinancial said:
I'm gonna tell you a secret:

white girls are very attracted to men of other races. Very. They just feel societal pressure not to date them, which secretly makes them more attracted. I know this from my sister.
how do they feel about Asian guys? i know a couple of white girls that are totally into Asian...but those are far and few...
 

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Ken785 said:
how do they feel about Asian guys? i know a couple of white girls that are totally into Asian...but those are far and few...
I've met plenty of white and black girls who dig Asian guys

Seriously, Asian guys aren't as emasculated as they were 10 years ago
 

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I'm hispanic and can't attract anything:crazy:

I don't think it's my ethnicity though, it's my impression hispanic guys do quite well?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm black, I ALWAYS get rejected because of my race. But its probably because they expect me to talk black but I enunciate and shyt so I don't sound black at all. They try to play it off as if its a lack of game, but really they want some guy with long hair that he flips all the dämn time haha. You know its really easy to say race doesn't matter when you're white.

Alot of charming black guys in my classes will point out an attractive white girl to me and they always say "Shes cute but she don't like black men"

Ironically though, wutang is right about girls fantasizing being with guys of different races. But when that comes to black guys, they are only attracted to the stereotypical black guy. (ie tall, strong, alpha, very athletic, etc. etc i could keep going on.)

My game is as tight as a stocking cap, but I get beat out with AFC pvssy long haired guys.

Not complaining though, I don't need pvssy, pvssy needs me.
 
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