"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Have you ever been in a situation when your woman made rules for you that she didn't make for other men (i.e., more alpha than you)?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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For sure, my. Buddy took a chick on a trip to BC for 2 weeks, spent 10 grand, met her off PoF 3 days earlier, he chilled with her the whole time, never got an ounce of pus$y.

Crazy
 

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All the time and I agree. It happens A LOT. Not just with me but in general.

"I never licked anyone's azz before while stroking them off until you..." LOL

Edit: This was one of my RP moments when a girl I was seeing told me(and I never asked about it, she started the convo). She said to me that I didn't have to hide things from her and it was ok if I fvcked other girls but she wanted me to use a condom on them and save the rawdogging for her. That was truly a mind-blowing moment for me.

So that saying that women would rather share an alpha rather than being monogamous with a beta rings true.
 
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I can confirm that but i've been on both sides. When a girl was really into me and wanted to lock me down, she'd do everything i wanted. The same girl made 1000 rules for me when i turned into a beta chump while being with her.

I also saw many examples in my social circle. There was a girl i knew when i was in school. She was 16 at that time and there was an ''alpha''bad boy who fvcked her in the school toilet on a regular basis.
The same girl married a few years ago and she made many rules for her future husband. They didnt even have sex before marriage. This was a win win situation for her because her rules made him believe that she's a good girl.
A lot of blue pill guys fall for this trap. She rode the carousel and is making rules ONLY for you now + you believe she does that because she's a good girl :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Do you really think if she wanted to fvck someone who was "less Alpha" that she would? So just because she made more rules for you, doesn't mean you were "less Alpha", she just might have not wanted to fvck you. Which is her right.
 

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I don't have anything super concrete worth sharing but I can certainly think of a couple of things I did and said that the girl dismissed and laughed about. Had she not liked me there would've been no way she would've and might've even got mad. When the girl really likes the guy she will look past a lot and even make excuses for him.
 

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How would you know? I mean do you have a list of all the guys she has dated previously to compare with?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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