Ive been living with my gf for about 6 months or so. been with her over a year. I love her a lot. she is still in school finishing up her masters degree she will be done in may or this summer at the latest. After i finished school I stayed up here with her and found a job. I was at the job for almost a year but the job wasnt for me (I would dread going in to work everyday not a good situation for me or the company.) So now Im going to find a job in the city where there are a lot more opportunities. Ill only be an hour drive away which isnt too bad. i have a free place to stay which would probably be 30 minutes away from work at the most so it doesnt make sense to drvie 1 hour everyday. this would be the first time i would be in a relationship like this. We agreed that I will just come and stay with her friday through the weekened and go back down monday morning every week so im staying with her 3 out 7 nights in the week (she cant come down cause her studies require she work on the weekeneds (research).) The thing im worried about is i always hear how things could turn bad in a situation like this. What can I do to help the relationship stay strong? I was thinking maybe buying one of those video cameras for the computer for each of us. what else can I do?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Have to move away from GF what to do?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Stop being a pvssy.
You r career and life should come first.
Make the move - suffer the results.
Stop worrying about your relationship - if it is worth the strain, she will tow the line.
Good luck.
You r career and life should come first.
Make the move - suffer the results.
Stop worrying about your relationship - if it is worth the strain, she will tow the line.
Good luck.
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don't cross post in two forums is what you should do....
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