Ive been living with my gf for about 6 months or so. been with her over a year. I love her a lot. she is still in school finishing up her masters degree she will be done in may or this summer at the latest. After i finished school I stayed up here with her and found a job. I was at the job for almost a year but the job wasnt for me (I would dread going in to work everyday not a good situation for me or the company.) So now Im going to find a job in the city where there are a lot more opportunities. Ill only be an hour drive away which isnt too bad. i have a free place to stay which would probably be 30 minutes away from work at the most so it doesnt make sense to drvie 1 hour everyday. this would be the first time i would be in a relationship like this. We agreed that I will just come and stay with her friday through the weekened and go back down monday morning every week so im staying with her 3 out 7 nights in the week (she cant come down cause her studies require she work on the weekeneds (research).) The thing im worried about is i always hear how things could turn bad in a situation like this. What can I do to help the relationship stay strong? I was thinking maybe buying one of those video cameras for the computer for each of us. what else can I do?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Have to move away from GF what to do?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Stop being a pvssy.
You r career and life should come first.
Make the move - suffer the results.
Stop worrying about your relationship - if it is worth the strain, she will tow the line.
Good luck.
You r career and life should come first.
Make the move - suffer the results.
Stop worrying about your relationship - if it is worth the strain, she will tow the line.
Good luck.
speedo_meme
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don't cross post in two forums is what you should do....
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