Ive been living with my gf for about 6 months or so. been with her over a year. I love her a lot. she is still in school finishing up her masters degree she will be done in may or this summer at the latest. After i finished school I stayed up here with her and found a job. I was at the job for almost a year but the job wasnt for me (I would dread going in to work everyday not a good situation for me or the company.) So now Im going to find a job in the city where there are a lot more opportunities. Ill only be an hour drive away which isnt too bad. i have a free place to stay which would probably be 30 minutes away from work at the most so it doesnt make sense to drvie 1 hour everyday. this would be the first time i would be in a relationship like this. We agreed that I will just come and stay with her friday through the weekened and go back down monday morning every week so im staying with her 3 out 7 nights in the week (she cant come down cause her studies require she work on the weekeneds (research).) The thing im worried about is i always hear how things could turn bad in a situation like this. What can I do to help the relationship stay strong? I was thinking maybe buying one of those video cameras for the computer for each of us. what else can I do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Have to move away from GF what to do?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
NewMan
Master Don Juan
Stop being a pvssy.
You r career and life should come first.
Make the move - suffer the results.
Stop worrying about your relationship - if it is worth the strain, she will tow the line.
Good luck.
You r career and life should come first.
Make the move - suffer the results.
Stop worrying about your relationship - if it is worth the strain, she will tow the line.
Good luck.
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don't cross post in two forums is what you should do....
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