"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Have to break up with this girl

djzulu

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Hi,

Haven't been on this forum for a while - and what has happened to many brave dj's on this board has happened to me a few months ago... I fell for the wrong girl.

I always read posts on this forum with disbelief - how could these guys fall for such nutcases and never see it happen? And guess what? It happened to me. I was dating 4 girls at the time and I decided to go exclusive with a complete psycho. This relationship started consuming my social life, my mind and my well-being (not to mention my game ;-) ). Luckily it only lasted for months and not for years and I managed to gain some insight into my pathetic situation and make a move - to run for my life!

Without elaborating too much, all I want to do is to ensure that I break up with this girl today. I have tried before and it didn't work out, so I am holding myself accountable by letting all you fellow dj's know that today I am going to be a new man. I am going to be the Zulu everyone knows and start playing the field again. If there is someone out there that I am supposed to spend the rest of my life with, it's certainly not this broad - it's time to let her go.

Thanks guys for your virtual support! I am heading out now to close the deal - will keep you posted later tonight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Well get on with it man, there are other women out there who merit your attention! :up:
 

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Give us ideas on the stuff that make her a psycho. And if she is in her 30s or 40s.
 

Latinoman

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By the way...I'm serious about this. You sharing your experience can help others (including MYSELF) detect possible psycho behavior from our partners/potential partners.
 

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*stamps 'I Virtually Support You' to your monitor*
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Go kick her to the curb, hard!!!
-Wait...have sex first!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok guys, it's done. Thanks for all your support.

I know for some it might seem strange, but sometimes our minds are easily manipulated by other individuals. I will soon go into the details so that everybody on this board will have a chance to learn.

For now, I am just taking a break, and hitting the bars :D
 

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Way to go man, sometimes the right thing isn't the fun thing.
djzulu said:
I know for some it might seem strange, but sometimes our minds are easily manipulated by other individuals.
....Or is it ourselves allowing our own minds to wander down unhealthy, unproductive paths?

Well, pyscho b1tch AW's don't seem to help much either ;)

But they sure are good at ejecting us out of the Matrix when the time arises :)
 

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Great you come to a good realization. This is exactly what happends to "enlightened-AFCs" who proclaim themselves to be "DJs". They hang around in the forum, soak themselves with bit of informations from the forum and they go about claiming they master the act of djism. Lots of lessons need to be learn, my bro zulu.
 
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