"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have no DJ friends, what can I do?

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Hi,

College girls are way too easy, its almost no fun. Seriously, some girls can pick you up here.....its almost no fun. In college, get them to laugh, tell them their pretty (works in college at least) and get their number. Ask to hang out, go over to their place, done!

However my only problem is I have no friends that are any good with women, so I always have to go alone. I triend meeting some people but it just doesn't seem work. I don't want to join friends in death row. Seriously, its sad how some are afraid to start a convo with a girl b/c they'll think he's a weirdo .One also suggested he want to go ot class for women so he could stare at them. OMG

And also, you don't have to be a alcoholic druggie thug to do well (what seems to get suggested too often). I'm a A student and non profit executive, and I'm doing just fine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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John_Smith said:
Hi,

College girls are way too easy, its almost no fun. Seriously, some girls can pick you up here.....its almost no fun. In college, get them to laugh, tell them their pretty (works in college at least) and get their number. Ask to hang out, go over to their place, done!

However my only problem is I have no friends that are any good with women, so I always have to go alone. I triend meeting some people but it just doesn't seem work. I don't want to join friends in death row. Seriously, its sad how some are afraid to start a convo with a girl b/c they'll think he's a weirdo .One also suggested he want to go ot class for women so he could stare at them. OMG

And also, you don't have to be a alcoholic druggie thug to do well (what seems to get suggested too often). I'm a A student and non profit executive, and I'm doing just fine.
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He wants to go to a class with women so that he could stare at them! :eek:

That's pathetic.....smack him for me.

Well.....As far as finding dudes that are good with women as well....you have to test the waters.

There are A LOT of guys that aren't good with women because their view is f'ed up about what women really want.
 
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DJ4Real said:
He wants to go to a class with women so that he could stare at them! :eek:

That's pathetic.....smack him for me.
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I did. He should not even tell a joke like that.
 
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dude, why don't you bne the DJ? do you really need anyone else if they- are that easy?
 
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I have like no dj friends in my new city....used to have wingmen whod club with me...now they are winggirls..wtf
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You don't need to rely on other people if what you're doing already is working do you? Hell they might not even help you at all......many so called wingmen tend to end up as ****blockers.....
If it's easy why make it harder on yourself?????


Where the hell are you that anyway that you can't find like minded friends to hangout with.......just hang with the ladies if you can....more fun and more social proof at the same time....what a bargain!
 
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