"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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John_Smith

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Hi,

College girls are way too easy, its almost no fun. Seriously, some girls can pick you up here.....its almost no fun. In college, get them to laugh, tell them their pretty (works in college at least) and get their number. Ask to hang out, go over to their place, done!

However my only problem is I have no friends that are any good with women, so I always have to go alone. I triend meeting some people but it just doesn't seem work. I don't want to join friends in death row. Seriously, its sad how some are afraid to start a convo with a girl b/c they'll think he's a weirdo .One also suggested he want to go ot class for women so he could stare at them. OMG

And also, you don't have to be a alcoholic druggie thug to do well (what seems to get suggested too often). I'm a A student and non profit executive, and I'm doing just fine.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJ4Real

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John_Smith said:
Hi,

College girls are way too easy, its almost no fun. Seriously, some girls can pick you up here.....its almost no fun. In college, get them to laugh, tell them their pretty (works in college at least) and get their number. Ask to hang out, go over to their place, done!

However my only problem is I have no friends that are any good with women, so I always have to go alone. I triend meeting some people but it just doesn't seem work. I don't want to join friends in death row. Seriously, its sad how some are afraid to start a convo with a girl b/c they'll think he's a weirdo .One also suggested he want to go ot class for women so he could stare at them. OMG

And also, you don't have to be a alcoholic druggie thug to do well (what seems to get suggested too often). I'm a A student and non profit executive, and I'm doing just fine.
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He wants to go to a class with women so that he could stare at them! :eek:

That's pathetic.....smack him for me.

Well.....As far as finding dudes that are good with women as well....you have to test the waters.

There are A LOT of guys that aren't good with women because their view is f'ed up about what women really want.
 
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DJ4Real said:
He wants to go to a class with women so that he could stare at them! :eek:

That's pathetic.....smack him for me.
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I did. He should not even tell a joke like that.
 
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dude, why don't you bne the DJ? do you really need anyone else if they- are that easy?
 
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I have like no dj friends in my new city....used to have wingmen whod club with me...now they are winggirls..wtf
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You don't need to rely on other people if what you're doing already is working do you? Hell they might not even help you at all......many so called wingmen tend to end up as ****blockers.....
If it's easy why make it harder on yourself?????


Where the hell are you that anyway that you can't find like minded friends to hangout with.......just hang with the ladies if you can....more fun and more social proof at the same time....what a bargain!
 
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