"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Have no DJ friends, what can I do?

John_Smith

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Hi,

College girls are way too easy, its almost no fun. Seriously, some girls can pick you up here.....its almost no fun. In college, get them to laugh, tell them their pretty (works in college at least) and get their number. Ask to hang out, go over to their place, done!

However my only problem is I have no friends that are any good with women, so I always have to go alone. I triend meeting some people but it just doesn't seem work. I don't want to join friends in death row. Seriously, its sad how some are afraid to start a convo with a girl b/c they'll think he's a weirdo .One also suggested he want to go ot class for women so he could stare at them. OMG

And also, you don't have to be a alcoholic druggie thug to do well (what seems to get suggested too often). I'm a A student and non profit executive, and I'm doing just fine.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ4Real

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John_Smith said:
Hi,

College girls are way too easy, its almost no fun. Seriously, some girls can pick you up here.....its almost no fun. In college, get them to laugh, tell them their pretty (works in college at least) and get their number. Ask to hang out, go over to their place, done!

However my only problem is I have no friends that are any good with women, so I always have to go alone. I triend meeting some people but it just doesn't seem work. I don't want to join friends in death row. Seriously, its sad how some are afraid to start a convo with a girl b/c they'll think he's a weirdo .One also suggested he want to go ot class for women so he could stare at them. OMG

And also, you don't have to be a alcoholic druggie thug to do well (what seems to get suggested too often). I'm a A student and non profit executive, and I'm doing just fine.
He wants to go to a class with women so that he could stare at them! :eek:

That's pathetic.....smack him for me.

Well.....As far as finding dudes that are good with women as well....you have to test the waters.

There are A LOT of guys that aren't good with women because their view is f'ed up about what women really want.
 

John_Smith

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DJ4Real said:
He wants to go to a class with women so that he could stare at them! :eek:

That's pathetic.....smack him for me.

I did. He should not even tell a joke like that.
 

wavejams007

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dude, why don't you bne the DJ? do you really need anyone else if they- are that easy?
 

LaoDa

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I have like no dj friends in my new city....used to have wingmen whod club with me...now they are winggirls..wtf
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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El MonoLoco

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You don't need to rely on other people if what you're doing already is working do you? Hell they might not even help you at all......many so called wingmen tend to end up as ****blockers.....
If it's easy why make it harder on yourself?????


Where the hell are you that anyway that you can't find like minded friends to hangout with.......just hang with the ladies if you can....more fun and more social proof at the same time....what a bargain!
 
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