"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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have i move to the friend zone?

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I met up with this girl at the mall tonight cept she invited this other guy too. I'm macking it up with her and it seem like the other guy is getting all jealous. Her friend after awhile just leaves. Then later on she gets a phone call and has her lil bro who is like 12 come to the mall.

I think i should just next this ***** because this just is'nt worth my time. I mean there was some kino and all but nothing really that sexual. Any advice?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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don't worry about being in the friends zone it's the best way to enter a relationship in high school. I know that it's contradictory to popular beliefs but it's true in the high school arena. I know from experience
 
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ok..the friend zone...in high school..
it's a great way to enter a relationship IF these stipulations are met
1. you're not best friends
2. you're not with her every single minute you can be
3. you don't act like an afc..which is what usually happens when you becomes friends
4. you retain your alpha principles if you have any

it's not necessasarily the friend zone that fuks you..it's how deep you get into it..that's why people warn you to never enter it...most people think.."oh i'll never be a ***** ass." but then they get deep into the friend zone..really deep..most think getting this close is good but it's not..i used to think it was..walk her home everyday..talk to her before she slept..BAM just wants to be friends..FUK THAT...don't get deep into the friend zone and you'll be fine
 
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Not enough information. Esculate and see where you stand.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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metalfan20 said:
don't worry about being in the friends zone it's the best way to enter a relationship in high school. I know that it's contradictory to popular beliefs but it's true in the high school arena. I know from experience
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Holy Sh!t Bro! -----> That actuallly makes a lot of sense! :yes:

I'm so surprised that I was narrow-mindidly following all the famous Seduction Gurus "by-the-book" without even thinking outside the box for a little bit :eek:

Thanks for the enlightening thought my man! :up:
 
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