"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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have i move to the friend zone?

honi1

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I met up with this girl at the mall tonight cept she invited this other guy too. I'm macking it up with her and it seem like the other guy is getting all jealous. Her friend after awhile just leaves. Then later on she gets a phone call and has her lil bro who is like 12 come to the mall.

I think i should just next this ***** because this just is'nt worth my time. I mean there was some kino and all but nothing really that sexual. Any advice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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metalfan20

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don't worry about being in the friends zone it's the best way to enter a relationship in high school. I know that it's contradictory to popular beliefs but it's true in the high school arena. I know from experience
 

jeffthechef

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ok..the friend zone...in high school..
it's a great way to enter a relationship IF these stipulations are met
1. you're not best friends
2. you're not with her every single minute you can be
3. you don't act like an afc..which is what usually happens when you becomes friends
4. you retain your alpha principles if you have any

it's not necessasarily the friend zone that fuks you..it's how deep you get into it..that's why people warn you to never enter it...most people think.."oh i'll never be a ***** ass." but then they get deep into the friend zone..really deep..most think getting this close is good but it's not..i used to think it was..walk her home everyday..talk to her before she slept..BAM just wants to be friends..FUK THAT...don't get deep into the friend zone and you'll be fine
 

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Not enough information. Esculate and see where you stand.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OTB

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metalfan20 said:
don't worry about being in the friends zone it's the best way to enter a relationship in high school. I know that it's contradictory to popular beliefs but it's true in the high school arena. I know from experience
Holy Sh!t Bro! -----> That actuallly makes a lot of sense! :yes:

I'm so surprised that I was narrow-mindidly following all the famous Seduction Gurus "by-the-book" without even thinking outside the box for a little bit :eek:

Thanks for the enlightening thought my man! :up:
 
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