"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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have i move to the friend zone?

honi1

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I met up with this girl at the mall tonight cept she invited this other guy too. I'm macking it up with her and it seem like the other guy is getting all jealous. Her friend after awhile just leaves. Then later on she gets a phone call and has her lil bro who is like 12 come to the mall.

I think i should just next this ***** because this just is'nt worth my time. I mean there was some kino and all but nothing really that sexual. Any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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metalfan20

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don't worry about being in the friends zone it's the best way to enter a relationship in high school. I know that it's contradictory to popular beliefs but it's true in the high school arena. I know from experience
 

jeffthechef

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ok..the friend zone...in high school..
it's a great way to enter a relationship IF these stipulations are met
1. you're not best friends
2. you're not with her every single minute you can be
3. you don't act like an afc..which is what usually happens when you becomes friends
4. you retain your alpha principles if you have any

it's not necessasarily the friend zone that fuks you..it's how deep you get into it..that's why people warn you to never enter it...most people think.."oh i'll never be a ***** ass." but then they get deep into the friend zone..really deep..most think getting this close is good but it's not..i used to think it was..walk her home everyday..talk to her before she slept..BAM just wants to be friends..FUK THAT...don't get deep into the friend zone and you'll be fine
 

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Not enough information. Esculate and see where you stand.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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OTB

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metalfan20 said:
don't worry about being in the friends zone it's the best way to enter a relationship in high school. I know that it's contradictory to popular beliefs but it's true in the high school arena. I know from experience
Holy Sh!t Bro! -----> That actuallly makes a lot of sense! :yes:

I'm so surprised that I was narrow-mindidly following all the famous Seduction Gurus "by-the-book" without even thinking outside the box for a little bit :eek:

Thanks for the enlightening thought my man! :up:
 
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