"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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have i gotten in a nice deep pile of ****?

Imohtep

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alright so... ill just shorten this so you guys dont get bored xD

1. i went out with a girl from another school for like a week...wasnt really workin out cuz she was always busy so we just became friends ( but she still liked me )

2. basically ask out one of the previous girls friends that goes to my school out and she said she likes me but is waiting on some guy that shes "in love with" at another school

3. ask out another girl from my school who is friends with the second one and she says yes....second one ( who im actually friends with ) complains that im toying with feelings and that im a jerk who just wants a relationship no matter what girl it is

now considering that im friends with girl 2 and hang out with her everyday, do u think shes gunna like hold a grudge against me now? i dont know...i dont like it when they get mad at me =P so to all you guys...what should i do to make em happy? ( that doesnt involve dumping )
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ostepop

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Why keep a girl thats in your friendzone happy? Its not like the chances for sex is very high
 

Imohtep

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ya but i guess you should know...i didnt join this forum to get laid as much as i can....i prefer getting into relationships xD and Im the kind of guy that likes to keep everyone happy...iunno
 

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Whenever girls try to get into "Friendzones" with me and play that kinda BS, I drop all contact, period. You should be the one playing the games, not them.

I absolutely despise being an emotional tampon, hell, whenever a girl is being negative I completely avoid her like kryptonite (by negative I mean in a bad mood that day)
 

djweses89

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dude heres my advice i used to try and keep everyone happy myself doesnt work def if your in high school just worry bout it because not to bust your balls but almost the majority of the ppl and women you date and your friends with your not gunna talk to again after high school. so just date who ever, be with who ever, and if someone who is your so called friend has a problem with it then there not as good as a friend as you thought so don't worry about making them happy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ostepop

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Imohtep said:
ya but i guess you should know...i didnt join this forum to get laid as much as i can....i prefer getting into relationships xD and Im the kind of guy that likes to keep everyone happy...iunno
What kind of relationship do you think you will get out of being friends with a girl?
 
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