"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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have i gotten in a nice deep pile of ****?

Imohtep

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alright so... ill just shorten this so you guys dont get bored xD

1. i went out with a girl from another school for like a week...wasnt really workin out cuz she was always busy so we just became friends ( but she still liked me )

2. basically ask out one of the previous girls friends that goes to my school out and she said she likes me but is waiting on some guy that shes "in love with" at another school

3. ask out another girl from my school who is friends with the second one and she says yes....second one ( who im actually friends with ) complains that im toying with feelings and that im a jerk who just wants a relationship no matter what girl it is

now considering that im friends with girl 2 and hang out with her everyday, do u think shes gunna like hold a grudge against me now? i dont know...i dont like it when they get mad at me =P so to all you guys...what should i do to make em happy? ( that doesnt involve dumping )
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ostepop

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Why keep a girl thats in your friendzone happy? Its not like the chances for sex is very high
 

Imohtep

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ya but i guess you should know...i didnt join this forum to get laid as much as i can....i prefer getting into relationships xD and Im the kind of guy that likes to keep everyone happy...iunno
 

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Whenever girls try to get into "Friendzones" with me and play that kinda BS, I drop all contact, period. You should be the one playing the games, not them.

I absolutely despise being an emotional tampon, hell, whenever a girl is being negative I completely avoid her like kryptonite (by negative I mean in a bad mood that day)
 

djweses89

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dude heres my advice i used to try and keep everyone happy myself doesnt work def if your in high school just worry bout it because not to bust your balls but almost the majority of the ppl and women you date and your friends with your not gunna talk to again after high school. so just date who ever, be with who ever, and if someone who is your so called friend has a problem with it then there not as good as a friend as you thought so don't worry about making them happy.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ostepop

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Imohtep said:
ya but i guess you should know...i didnt join this forum to get laid as much as i can....i prefer getting into relationships xD and Im the kind of guy that likes to keep everyone happy...iunno
What kind of relationship do you think you will get out of being friends with a girl?
 
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