"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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have i gotten in a nice deep pile of ****?

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alright so... ill just shorten this so you guys dont get bored xD

1. i went out with a girl from another school for like a week...wasnt really workin out cuz she was always busy so we just became friends ( but she still liked me )

2. basically ask out one of the previous girls friends that goes to my school out and she said she likes me but is waiting on some guy that shes "in love with" at another school

3. ask out another girl from my school who is friends with the second one and she says yes....second one ( who im actually friends with ) complains that im toying with feelings and that im a jerk who just wants a relationship no matter what girl it is

now considering that im friends with girl 2 and hang out with her everyday, do u think shes gunna like hold a grudge against me now? i dont know...i dont like it when they get mad at me =P so to all you guys...what should i do to make em happy? ( that doesnt involve dumping )
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why keep a girl thats in your friendzone happy? Its not like the chances for sex is very high
 
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ya but i guess you should know...i didnt join this forum to get laid as much as i can....i prefer getting into relationships xD and Im the kind of guy that likes to keep everyone happy...iunno
 
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Whenever girls try to get into "Friendzones" with me and play that kinda BS, I drop all contact, period. You should be the one playing the games, not them.

I absolutely despise being an emotional tampon, hell, whenever a girl is being negative I completely avoid her like kryptonite (by negative I mean in a bad mood that day)
 
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dude heres my advice i used to try and keep everyone happy myself doesnt work def if your in high school just worry bout it because not to bust your balls but almost the majority of the ppl and women you date and your friends with your not gunna talk to again after high school. so just date who ever, be with who ever, and if someone who is your so called friend has a problem with it then there not as good as a friend as you thought so don't worry about making them happy.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Imohtep said:
ya but i guess you should know...i didnt join this forum to get laid as much as i can....i prefer getting into relationships xD and Im the kind of guy that likes to keep everyone happy...iunno
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What kind of relationship do you think you will get out of being friends with a girl?
 
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