"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Have a good looking 21 year old girlfriend but...

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She has acne spots on her face. It's not horrible- they are not white heads, i think she already popped them. More like the red marks from where it used to be whiteheads

Am i stupid to let this bother me so much? She has a beautiful face otherwise - great very full lips, great eyes, long eyelashes. The body is very good - 5'10, super thick/curvy with a small waist, long thick legs, nice calves. I'm working out with her to get her in awesome shape- she will look like those instagram latina fitness babes in 8 month

What do you guys think? Will this get better over time? She is only 21. Personality is excellent. It is right on money
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I said in the “Advice to 18 yo” thread something to the effect of, “Young guys throw away lots of good puzzy.”

^Read Exhibit A above (ie post #1).

You have doubts about a cute 21 yo with a good body and great personality because of some leftover acne spots?

You’re worrying about nothing.
 
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Mike32ct said:
I said in the “Advice to 18 yo” thread something to the effect of, “Young guys throw away lots of good puzzy.”

^Read Exhibit A above (ie post #1).

You have doubts about a cute 21 yo with a good body and great personality because of some leftover acne spots?

You’re worrying about nothing.
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She would be totally gorgeous if she had clear skin

So frustrating
 
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And I suspect she would think you would be perfect if you could just remedy x,y and z. If you deserve perfection, so does she.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AndreasMunzer9 said:
She has acne spots on her face. It's not horrible- they are not white heads, i think she already popped them. More like the red marks from where it used to be whiteheads

Am i stupid to let this bother me so much? She has a beautiful face otherwise - great very full lips, great eyes, long eyelashes. The body is very good - 5'10, super thick/curvy with a small waist, long thick legs, nice calves. I'm working out with her to get her in awesome shape- she will look like those instagram latina fitness babes in 8 month

What do you guys think? Will this get better over time? She is only 21. Personality is excellent. It is right on money
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If it bothers you so much, get her a few or several dermapen or similar treatments.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AndreasMunzer9 said:
She would be totally gorgeous if she had clear skin

So frustrating
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Find yourself another 21 yr old with the exact body dimensions, face, and personality, minus the acne, who also thinks your perfect.

Shouldn’t be too hard ;/.
 
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