i just hate that i caved in and broke no contact. one week of no contact i handled well and now after watching her tagged in a mutual friend's photo on fb all the hell broke lose. she completed her final exams today so texted her to say hope it went well. when i dint get a reply i called her up. she dint answer. an hour later she called back saying she's out with friends and phone was on silent so she dint receive. i played it cool told her that i hope it went well enjoy your day. still i hate myself for acting this way. now after hearing her voice its more difficult to forget everything and stop the memories from flooding my mind and its annoying to the core
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
hating for breaking nc
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BadNews
Senior Don Juan
Is this a breakup? If it is, you're going to hate yourself even more if you continue down this path. You need to focus on other things in your life...and try to keep yourself occupied (especially for the first few weeks) so you're not sitting around thinking about calling her, or what shes doing. It gets easier as time goes on. But every time you slip up like this...its like you have to start all over again.
kenpiffyjr
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Dont beat yourself up. So she thinks you're a simp for a day or two. Cool. Start NC again and soon she'll stop thinking that and you'll be cool.
it is a breakup but still feelings are there on both sides but had to end it as im going out of country for a long time..however the breakup happened a 2-3 weeks back but she continued being in touch..the no contact phase started a week back.BadNews said:
i handled the first few days well..hanging out with friends..right now a few min back she texted me in reply to the text that i sent her and wrote tht she was not alone in the car so couldnt talk more..i havent replied to that..nor am i planning to..
thanks for the response
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
It happens.