"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Has this happened to you?

B

blinkwatt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2005
Messages
1,904
Reaction score
7
Age
39
I was getting GREAT signs,kino,body language from a hb at work. Everything was awesome,set up a date etc. Now I talk to a co-worker at work(she is good friends with her) and she says that hb may flake on me. Wtf,and even after the hb says she may flake on me,she still grabbed onto me after some flirting.....

Anyone been here before,regardless I'm going to act like I heard nothing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

T

tuxen

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 19, 2006
Messages
50
Reaction score
0
Location
Gold Coast, Australia
Pretend you heard nothing, continue to set up the date.

If she flakes, notice if she makes a counter offer.

If she does not, it may be a **** test, do NOT give in and chase.
 
T

Tomatoes

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 3, 2006
Messages
1,099
Reaction score
7
Age
41
Location
Nottingham
tuxen said:
Pretend you heard nothing, continue to set up the date.

If she flakes, notice if she makes a counter offer.

If she does not, it may be a **** test, do NOT give in and chase.
Click to expand...


/Agreed



Sarge On!
 
P

Phyzzle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
1,963
Reaction score
35
Don't rely on friends to tell you what's up. The whole flaking problem is between the two of you, so you just have to see what really happens.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top