"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blinkwatt

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I was getting GREAT signs,kino,body language from a hb at work. Everything was awesome,set up a date etc. Now I talk to a co-worker at work(she is good friends with her) and she says that hb may flake on me. Wtf,and even after the hb says she may flake on me,she still grabbed onto me after some flirting.....

Anyone been here before,regardless I'm going to act like I heard nothing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pretend you heard nothing, continue to set up the date.

If she flakes, notice if she makes a counter offer.

If she does not, it may be a **** test, do NOT give in and chase.
 
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Tomatoes

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tuxen said:
Pretend you heard nothing, continue to set up the date.

If she flakes, notice if she makes a counter offer.

If she does not, it may be a **** test, do NOT give in and chase.
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/Agreed



Sarge On!
 
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Don't rely on friends to tell you what's up. The whole flaking problem is between the two of you, so you just have to see what really happens.
 
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