"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blinkwatt

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I was getting GREAT signs,kino,body language from a hb at work. Everything was awesome,set up a date etc. Now I talk to a co-worker at work(she is good friends with her) and she says that hb may flake on me. Wtf,and even after the hb says she may flake on me,she still grabbed onto me after some flirting.....

Anyone been here before,regardless I'm going to act like I heard nothing.
 

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tuxen

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Pretend you heard nothing, continue to set up the date.

If she flakes, notice if she makes a counter offer.

If she does not, it may be a **** test, do NOT give in and chase.
 

Tomatoes

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tuxen said:
Pretend you heard nothing, continue to set up the date.

If she flakes, notice if she makes a counter offer.

If she does not, it may be a **** test, do NOT give in and chase.


/Agreed



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Phyzzle

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Don't rely on friends to tell you what's up. The whole flaking problem is between the two of you, so you just have to see what really happens.
 
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