"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has this happened to you?

blinkwatt

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I was getting GREAT signs,kino,body language from a hb at work. Everything was awesome,set up a date etc. Now I talk to a co-worker at work(she is good friends with her) and she says that hb may flake on me. Wtf,and even after the hb says she may flake on me,she still grabbed onto me after some flirting.....

Anyone been here before,regardless I'm going to act like I heard nothing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tuxen

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Pretend you heard nothing, continue to set up the date.

If she flakes, notice if she makes a counter offer.

If she does not, it may be a **** test, do NOT give in and chase.
 

Tomatoes

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tuxen said:
Pretend you heard nothing, continue to set up the date.

If she flakes, notice if she makes a counter offer.

If she does not, it may be a **** test, do NOT give in and chase.


/Agreed



Sarge On!
 

Phyzzle

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Don't rely on friends to tell you what's up. The whole flaking problem is between the two of you, so you just have to see what really happens.
 
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