"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So this girl in my school told me she likes me, admitted to being interested so we started talking and things went well.

Until i tried to kiss her, she turned her cheek? But couple days later she kisse's me. Am I doing something wrong. I tried kissing her again after she kissed me days later but she still turned her cheek. Not sure what to do. Although she's fine with me grabbing her butt or her thighs. She's a freak too in a good way.

Any advice on what my next move should be?
Should I stop trying to kiss her, go ghost?

Thanks sosuave bro's
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chicks are emotional, one minute they can't help themselves and MUST kiss you, later they just aren't feeling it.

Just let her come to you feed off her behavior and when she is in the mood just escalate.
 

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Chicks are emotional, one minute they can't help themselves and MUST kiss you, later they just aren't feeling it.

Just let her come to you feed off her behavior and when she is in the mood just escalate.
Alright, I'll just keep grabbing her butt, won't attempt to even kiss her. You'd think if she lets you grab her butt, she should let you kiss her lol. But oh well
Thanks for the advice!
 

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Chicks are emotional, one minute they can't help themselves and MUST kiss you, later they just aren't feeling it.

Just let her come to you feed off her behavior and when she is in the mood just escalate.
And by feed off her behaviour you mean like if she makes a move make a move?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright, I'll just keep grabbing her butt, won't attempt to even kiss her. You'd think if she lets you grab her butt, she should let you kiss her lol. But oh well
Thanks for the advice!
I wouldn't be grabbing her butt... unless she is doing this to you... then it's okay. That could end you up in jail. Even if she says she likes it, if you do it in public and someone sees this she could turn this on you and now you are guilty of sexual assault, and you have a sex offender label the rest of your life.

Just wait for her to come to you, she already likes you, just stop coming at her like a horny goat. She touches you, touch her back. She kisses you, kiss her back a little longer.

You are getting too frustrated with her... the best thing to do is back off a little and go after other chicks. Don;t spend too much time worrying about what this one chick is doing or not doing.
 

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I wouldn't be grabbing her butt... unless she is doing this to you... then it's okay. That could end you up in jail. Even if she says she likes it, if you do it in public and someone sees this she could turn this on you and now you are guilty of sexual assault, and you have a sex offender label the rest of your life.

Just wait for her to come to you, she already likes you, just stop coming at her like a horny goat. She touches you, touch her back. She kisses you, kiss her back a little longer.

You are getting too frustrated with her... the best thing to do is back off a little and go after other chicks. Don;t spend too much time worrying about what this one chick is doing or not doing.
Yeah she grabs my butt, and tells me I have a big butt (I squat heavy) she kissed me again Today.
 

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She tried giving me the cheek then I teased with "what are you like 10 than I backed away"
 

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She's playing. Have fun and play back. Be cool, calm, and don't take things so serious. Date other women, spin plates...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That's weird. I don't think she's playing. Bad breath maybe? Her or you? May sound funny but it's possible, esp if she sometimes kisses you and sometimes doesn't.

It could just be that simple.
 

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She's playing. You should be enjoying this, man. It's all this wishy washy feminine energy. Play with her, dance with her. When she kisses you next time, you turn the cheek!
 

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Next time she tries kissing you give her your cheek.
HAHAHAHAAHHAHA we said the same thing LOL I literally did not see your comment and I wrote mine and then the page refreshed and I see we have the same comment LOL
 

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How many 'other guys' does she like?

What happened to 'screening', guys?

chick could be psycho!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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get her out on a date, isolate and escalate
 

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She's playing. You should be enjoying this, man. It's all this wishy washy feminine energy. Play with her, dance with her. When she kisses you next time, you turn the cheek!
Well played, thanks for the tip!
 
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