"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Has the SMV of blond guys skyrocketed or has it always been this high?

Good Gao

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I notice that I see tons of sexy girls with blond guys when out and about and even when I check instagram.

Almost guaranteed that every time I see a sexy girl with dark hair who is white, her boyfriend or lover is blond (eg: Emily Ratatowski) but I even see a lot more blonde girls who are hot with blond guys.

It seems like tall dark and handsome is no longer really a thing and for most younger hot girls in their prime, the go to is a tall blond guy with good looks. Especially true if you are in a rich area.

Now I wonder if this is because of the popularity of the Hemsworth brothers and Charlie Hunam in media.

Has the SMV of blond guys skyrocketed or has it always been this high?

I actually think blond hair and blue eyes > tall dark and handsome if you actually want to get hot girls.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CBear

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That's ridiculous. I don't notice any correlations but if I were to think about it, I definitely see the opposite in my area. Tall dark handsome guys with blonde chicks. It definitely varies lol
 

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I think it when down the roof even the flood when some Adolf decided to wage a war now called World War 2 about how guys with blond haïr and blue eyes should get all the girls.

Man OP, you have a lot of free time... Use that to increase SMV
 

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Planning to join the ranks of BigDave and Richard ?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There might be something to this. What ever is popular in mainstream pop culture(Hollywood) is what women follow. Men and women are trend followers when it comes looks and fashion.

A few years back when Vin Diesel and Chris Daughtry(both bald guys) were at the top of their game, I would have random girls come up to me and tell me I looked like them. As the bald headed look has subsided as well as those guy's popularity, I don't get that anymore.
 
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