"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Has the SMV of blond guys skyrocketed or has it always been this high?

Good Gao

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I notice that I see tons of sexy girls with blond guys when out and about and even when I check instagram.

Almost guaranteed that every time I see a sexy girl with dark hair who is white, her boyfriend or lover is blond (eg: Emily Ratatowski) but I even see a lot more blonde girls who are hot with blond guys.

It seems like tall dark and handsome is no longer really a thing and for most younger hot girls in their prime, the go to is a tall blond guy with good looks. Especially true if you are in a rich area.

Now I wonder if this is because of the popularity of the Hemsworth brothers and Charlie Hunam in media.

Has the SMV of blond guys skyrocketed or has it always been this high?

I actually think blond hair and blue eyes > tall dark and handsome if you actually want to get hot girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CBear

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That's ridiculous. I don't notice any correlations but if I were to think about it, I definitely see the opposite in my area. Tall dark handsome guys with blonde chicks. It definitely varies lol
 

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I think it when down the roof even the flood when some Adolf decided to wage a war now called World War 2 about how guys with blond haïr and blue eyes should get all the girls.

Man OP, you have a lot of free time... Use that to increase SMV
 

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Planning to join the ranks of BigDave and Richard ?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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There might be something to this. What ever is popular in mainstream pop culture(Hollywood) is what women follow. Men and women are trend followers when it comes looks and fashion.

A few years back when Vin Diesel and Chris Daughtry(both bald guys) were at the top of their game, I would have random girls come up to me and tell me I looked like them. As the bald headed look has subsided as well as those guy's popularity, I don't get that anymore.
 
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