"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Has the SMV of blond guys skyrocketed or has it always been this high?

Good Gao

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I notice that I see tons of sexy girls with blond guys when out and about and even when I check instagram.

Almost guaranteed that every time I see a sexy girl with dark hair who is white, her boyfriend or lover is blond (eg: Emily Ratatowski) but I even see a lot more blonde girls who are hot with blond guys.

It seems like tall dark and handsome is no longer really a thing and for most younger hot girls in their prime, the go to is a tall blond guy with good looks. Especially true if you are in a rich area.

Now I wonder if this is because of the popularity of the Hemsworth brothers and Charlie Hunam in media.

Has the SMV of blond guys skyrocketed or has it always been this high?

I actually think blond hair and blue eyes > tall dark and handsome if you actually want to get hot girls.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CBear

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That's ridiculous. I don't notice any correlations but if I were to think about it, I definitely see the opposite in my area. Tall dark handsome guys with blonde chicks. It definitely varies lol
 

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I think it when down the roof even the flood when some Adolf decided to wage a war now called World War 2 about how guys with blond haïr and blue eyes should get all the girls.

Man OP, you have a lot of free time... Use that to increase SMV
 

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Planning to join the ranks of BigDave and Richard ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Duke

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There might be something to this. What ever is popular in mainstream pop culture(Hollywood) is what women follow. Men and women are trend followers when it comes looks and fashion.

A few years back when Vin Diesel and Chris Daughtry(both bald guys) were at the top of their game, I would have random girls come up to me and tell me I looked like them. As the bald headed look has subsided as well as those guy's popularity, I don't get that anymore.
 
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