"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Has my kino been too soft?

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DumpaLumpagus

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I think I've recognized a problem in my game; my kino is not effective. Here's an example, I'm talking with this girl in class who is shows alot of interest. To get her attention, I just kind of rest the back of my finger on the shoulder, with a slight pressure. It gets her attention, but, I've kinoed with more effectiveness before, and the way she responds doesn't compare. Is it possible maybe I'm being too "common" in my kino? Am I touching her like a stranger would, and should I be more forward? I was thinking maybe next time I would use my entire hand as that seems to say more, talk to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You are being forward enough, stop wasting time and ask her out.
 
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I'm thinking I am not communicating with her non-verbally. I remember reading something that said over 80% of all communication is non-verbal, so maybe using my full hand instead of a finger can make up for that other missing percentage, get it?

How do Y'all tell a girl you're attracted to her with kino?
 
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On the shoulder? what dumb kino is that? thats not kino, thats just bullsherry.

*3D model of a women pops up*

now i'll indicate all the places u can touch her at any moment in time.
and if u skilled enough (just like me) you'll be able to do this in public.

places in count:

1)Hair
2,3) Ears (both sides)
4,5) Cheeks (boths sides)
6,7) Butt cheeks (both of them)
8,9) stomache, lower and top
10, 11)waist (lower and upper)
12, 13) legs (left and right)

so far these are the safe areas.
now depending how good u are with your moment and placement of your body against hers, u can pull of touching her:

14,15) breasts (left and right, most likely start with the outer rims of ther breast and if she doesn't move away from that touch, goto the the inner, wink wink)
16,17) thighs (both of them, lower thigh area to the yummy upper (nearer to the jackpot area))
18) lips (touch by finger or just a nice warm yummy kiss)

so lets get this, that is 18 essential places (and more) u can touch a girl in the first meeting. amazing enough we call that kino.

great example of a kino artists.....pick pocketers.

and yes i did learn from a pick pocketer, i can undress a chick without her knowing it, in 2 mins flat.

i can lossen her bra, without her knowing it. i can get my hands between her thighs without her knowing it and i can adjust her clothes so they are more revealing without her know it. man the only thing she'll actaully know is how wet she feels.

and i thank my bud the pick pocketer for all this, and also to the his dumb ass for stealing my cash , with out me knowing it.

(guys watch out for the grammer, i'm in a rush here)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by BackToTheMack
Ejaculate in her right eye!
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:woo: :woo: :cool:
 
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Originally posted by Evangenlion


and i thank my bud the pick pocketer for all this, and also to the his dumb ass for stealing my cash , with out me knowing it.
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:confused: :eek: :cool: :woo: :D
good friend of yours?;)
 
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Lol at your gay ass kino move, no offence.

haha anyway i like that kino list. I personally recommend you put your crotch on number 6,7. When you behind her just creep up on her and do it. Thats what you call real kino.

Also put your finger on 18 and ask her 'what lip balm you got on?'.

She already likes you so this **** should raise her interest level even more.
 
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Originally posted by dannyc
Lol at your gay ass kino move, no offence.

haha anyway i like that kino list. I personally recommend you put your crotch on number 6,7. When you behind her just creep up on her and do it. Thats what you call real kino.

Also put your finger on 18 and ask her 'what lip balm you got on?'.

She already likes you so this **** should raise her interest level even more.
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This sounds like a good move when you get "rapport" with her, and she feels comfortable doing this. But how do you think is the best way to kino on the first approach? I think doing what you suggested would result in me coming off like a pervert.
 
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Ok maybe.

Do regular kino then. Put your arm around her waist or caress her neck if you behind or walking past her. Make sure you touch skin when you do kino as it make it twice as effective. Theres so many more possibilities, seriously it aint rocket science.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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