"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Has my kino been too soft?

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I think I've recognized a problem in my game; my kino is not effective. Here's an example, I'm talking with this girl in class who is shows alot of interest. To get her attention, I just kind of rest the back of my finger on the shoulder, with a slight pressure. It gets her attention, but, I've kinoed with more effectiveness before, and the way she responds doesn't compare. Is it possible maybe I'm being too "common" in my kino? Am I touching her like a stranger would, and should I be more forward? I was thinking maybe next time I would use my entire hand as that seems to say more, talk to me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You are being forward enough, stop wasting time and ask her out.
 
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I'm thinking I am not communicating with her non-verbally. I remember reading something that said over 80% of all communication is non-verbal, so maybe using my full hand instead of a finger can make up for that other missing percentage, get it?

How do Y'all tell a girl you're attracted to her with kino?
 
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On the shoulder? what dumb kino is that? thats not kino, thats just bullsherry.

*3D model of a women pops up*

now i'll indicate all the places u can touch her at any moment in time.
and if u skilled enough (just like me) you'll be able to do this in public.

places in count:

1)Hair
2,3) Ears (both sides)
4,5) Cheeks (boths sides)
6,7) Butt cheeks (both of them)
8,9) stomache, lower and top
10, 11)waist (lower and upper)
12, 13) legs (left and right)

so far these are the safe areas.
now depending how good u are with your moment and placement of your body against hers, u can pull of touching her:

14,15) breasts (left and right, most likely start with the outer rims of ther breast and if she doesn't move away from that touch, goto the the inner, wink wink)
16,17) thighs (both of them, lower thigh area to the yummy upper (nearer to the jackpot area))
18) lips (touch by finger or just a nice warm yummy kiss)

so lets get this, that is 18 essential places (and more) u can touch a girl in the first meeting. amazing enough we call that kino.

great example of a kino artists.....pick pocketers.

and yes i did learn from a pick pocketer, i can undress a chick without her knowing it, in 2 mins flat.

i can lossen her bra, without her knowing it. i can get my hands between her thighs without her knowing it and i can adjust her clothes so they are more revealing without her know it. man the only thing she'll actaully know is how wet she feels.

and i thank my bud the pick pocketer for all this, and also to the his dumb ass for stealing my cash , with out me knowing it.

(guys watch out for the grammer, i'm in a rush here)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by BackToTheMack
Ejaculate in her right eye!
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:woo: :woo: :cool:
 
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Originally posted by Evangenlion


and i thank my bud the pick pocketer for all this, and also to the his dumb ass for stealing my cash , with out me knowing it.
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good friend of yours?;)
 
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Lol at your gay ass kino move, no offence.

haha anyway i like that kino list. I personally recommend you put your crotch on number 6,7. When you behind her just creep up on her and do it. Thats what you call real kino.

Also put your finger on 18 and ask her 'what lip balm you got on?'.

She already likes you so this **** should raise her interest level even more.
 
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Originally posted by dannyc
Lol at your gay ass kino move, no offence.

haha anyway i like that kino list. I personally recommend you put your crotch on number 6,7. When you behind her just creep up on her and do it. Thats what you call real kino.

Also put your finger on 18 and ask her 'what lip balm you got on?'.

She already likes you so this **** should raise her interest level even more.
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This sounds like a good move when you get "rapport" with her, and she feels comfortable doing this. But how do you think is the best way to kino on the first approach? I think doing what you suggested would result in me coming off like a pervert.
 
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Ok maybe.

Do regular kino then. Put your arm around her waist or caress her neck if you behind or walking past her. Make sure you touch skin when you do kino as it make it twice as effective. Theres so many more possibilities, seriously it aint rocket science.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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