"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Has my kino been too soft?

DumpaLumpagus

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I think I've recognized a problem in my game; my kino is not effective. Here's an example, I'm talking with this girl in class who is shows alot of interest. To get her attention, I just kind of rest the back of my finger on the shoulder, with a slight pressure. It gets her attention, but, I've kinoed with more effectiveness before, and the way she responds doesn't compare. Is it possible maybe I'm being too "common" in my kino? Am I touching her like a stranger would, and should I be more forward? I was thinking maybe next time I would use my entire hand as that seems to say more, talk to me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You are being forward enough, stop wasting time and ask her out.
 

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I'm thinking I am not communicating with her non-verbally. I remember reading something that said over 80% of all communication is non-verbal, so maybe using my full hand instead of a finger can make up for that other missing percentage, get it?

How do Y'all tell a girl you're attracted to her with kino?
 

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On the shoulder? what dumb kino is that? thats not kino, thats just bullsherry.

*3D model of a women pops up*

now i'll indicate all the places u can touch her at any moment in time.
and if u skilled enough (just like me) you'll be able to do this in public.

places in count:

1)Hair
2,3) Ears (both sides)
4,5) Cheeks (boths sides)
6,7) Butt cheeks (both of them)
8,9) stomache, lower and top
10, 11)waist (lower and upper)
12, 13) legs (left and right)

so far these are the safe areas.
now depending how good u are with your moment and placement of your body against hers, u can pull of touching her:

14,15) breasts (left and right, most likely start with the outer rims of ther breast and if she doesn't move away from that touch, goto the the inner, wink wink)
16,17) thighs (both of them, lower thigh area to the yummy upper (nearer to the jackpot area))
18) lips (touch by finger or just a nice warm yummy kiss)

so lets get this, that is 18 essential places (and more) u can touch a girl in the first meeting. amazing enough we call that kino.

great example of a kino artists.....pick pocketers.

and yes i did learn from a pick pocketer, i can undress a chick without her knowing it, in 2 mins flat.

i can lossen her bra, without her knowing it. i can get my hands between her thighs without her knowing it and i can adjust her clothes so they are more revealing without her know it. man the only thing she'll actaully know is how wet she feels.

and i thank my bud the pick pocketer for all this, and also to the his dumb ass for stealing my cash , with out me knowing it.

(guys watch out for the grammer, i'm in a rush here)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by BackToTheMack
Ejaculate in her right eye!
:woo: :woo: :cool:
 

RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by Evangenlion


and i thank my bud the pick pocketer for all this, and also to the his dumb ass for stealing my cash , with out me knowing it.
:confused: :eek: :cool: :woo: :D
good friend of yours?;)
 

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Lol at your gay ass kino move, no offence.

haha anyway i like that kino list. I personally recommend you put your crotch on number 6,7. When you behind her just creep up on her and do it. Thats what you call real kino.

Also put your finger on 18 and ask her 'what lip balm you got on?'.

She already likes you so this **** should raise her interest level even more.
 

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Originally posted by dannyc
Lol at your gay ass kino move, no offence.

haha anyway i like that kino list. I personally recommend you put your crotch on number 6,7. When you behind her just creep up on her and do it. Thats what you call real kino.

Also put your finger on 18 and ask her 'what lip balm you got on?'.

She already likes you so this **** should raise her interest level even more.
This sounds like a good move when you get "rapport" with her, and she feels comfortable doing this. But how do you think is the best way to kino on the first approach? I think doing what you suggested would result in me coming off like a pervert.
 

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Ok maybe.

Do regular kino then. Put your arm around her waist or caress her neck if you behind or walking past her. Make sure you touch skin when you do kino as it make it twice as effective. Theres so many more possibilities, seriously it aint rocket science.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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