"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Has anyone here ever dated a Stripper/Escort/Massage Attendant
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LittleBigOne
Don Juan
There is no game with escorts or strippers. It´s their game to take your money.
One of them was majorly fvcked in the head. Russian. We had lunch, I got her over to my place, we fooled around a little bit, she asked if I had a condom, I said yes, then she just got up and wanted to leave.
She made plans to see me again but flaked, apologized, and I told her it was nice knowing her.
The next stripper I went out with like 2-3 times, and actually maintained contact with her over 4-6 weeks (I was traveling a lot). She initiated all the contact.
Decent face (7.5), body was off the fvcking chain... probably the sexiest body of any woman I've ever touched. All natural too. We made out a lot but she refused to let it escalate any further. Again, major slut shields.
I dropped her when I fvcked my now ex, though I think the interest was fizzling anyway.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
BigJimbo said:
21 years later and your still scorned eeh mate?
Wake up it's 2011!
Let the past and the pain gooooooo