"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Has anyone here ever dated a Stripper/Escort/Massage Attendant
- Thread starter REPEM
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LittleBigOne
Don Juan
There is no game with escorts or strippers. It´s their game to take your money.
One of them was majorly fvcked in the head. Russian. We had lunch, I got her over to my place, we fooled around a little bit, she asked if I had a condom, I said yes, then she just got up and wanted to leave.
She made plans to see me again but flaked, apologized, and I told her it was nice knowing her.
The next stripper I went out with like 2-3 times, and actually maintained contact with her over 4-6 weeks (I was traveling a lot). She initiated all the contact.
Decent face (7.5), body was off the fvcking chain... probably the sexiest body of any woman I've ever touched. All natural too. We made out a lot but she refused to let it escalate any further. Again, major slut shields.
I dropped her when I fvcked my now ex, though I think the interest was fizzling anyway.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
BigJimbo said:
21 years later and your still scorned eeh mate?
Wake up it's 2011!
Let the past and the pain gooooooo