"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Has anyone here ever dated a Stripper/Escort/Massage Attendant
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LittleBigOne
Don Juan
There is no game with escorts or strippers. It´s their game to take your money.
One of them was majorly fvcked in the head. Russian. We had lunch, I got her over to my place, we fooled around a little bit, she asked if I had a condom, I said yes, then she just got up and wanted to leave.
She made plans to see me again but flaked, apologized, and I told her it was nice knowing her.
The next stripper I went out with like 2-3 times, and actually maintained contact with her over 4-6 weeks (I was traveling a lot). She initiated all the contact.
Decent face (7.5), body was off the fvcking chain... probably the sexiest body of any woman I've ever touched. All natural too. We made out a lot but she refused to let it escalate any further. Again, major slut shields.
I dropped her when I fvcked my now ex, though I think the interest was fizzling anyway.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
BigJimbo said:
21 years later and your still scorned eeh mate?
Wake up it's 2011!
Let the past and the pain gooooooo