lizardking82
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How does it feel?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Has anyone had a girlfriend/wife die...?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thorninmyside
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Teenage girlfriend die of acute leukemia 3 months after diagnosis. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I still get the guilts over being able to live the life she never did sometimes.
Doesn't really feel anyway sir. I guess it would matter on the time invested.
I knew a girl for two weeks or I dated her for two years equates to the emotional investment.
Death is an irrelevant topic since we are all born to do so.
I knew a girl for two weeks or I dated her for two years equates to the emotional investment.
Death is an irrelevant topic since we are all born to do so.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PeasantPlayer
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Not me had my friend had a friend who' wife died of cancer. They got married in their early 20....we all went to grade school together, but we were in different grades I know of his friend and see him around school and the neighborhood, but we weren't close. I could only imagine how he felt
Desdinova
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The closest thing I had was a woman who was interested in dating me. I was somewhat intrigued by her as well, but I didn't pursue because she was a smoker. She was pretty and fun to chat with. I lost contact with her after I changed hangouts. Four years later, a mutual friend on Facebook (whom I was unaware of) posted that she had died of brain cancer.
When I was 20 I bought a newspaper in college and found a correction on an obituary for the girl I lost my virginity to. It said she was married and she was dead. I went straight to her wake. He told me she died of cervical cancer but I think she might of OD'd. Her dad remembered my name. He died of a broken heart within a year. They are buried together.