lizardking82
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How does it feel?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Has anyone had a girlfriend/wife die...?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Thorninmyside
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Teenage girlfriend die of acute leukemia 3 months after diagnosis. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. I still get the guilts over being able to live the life she never did sometimes.
Doesn't really feel anyway sir. I guess it would matter on the time invested.
I knew a girl for two weeks or I dated her for two years equates to the emotional investment.
Death is an irrelevant topic since we are all born to do so.
I knew a girl for two weeks or I dated her for two years equates to the emotional investment.
Death is an irrelevant topic since we are all born to do so.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
PeasantPlayer
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Not me had my friend had a friend who' wife died of cancer. They got married in their early 20....we all went to grade school together, but we were in different grades I know of his friend and see him around school and the neighborhood, but we weren't close. I could only imagine how he felt
Desdinova
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The closest thing I had was a woman who was interested in dating me. I was somewhat intrigued by her as well, but I didn't pursue because she was a smoker. She was pretty and fun to chat with. I lost contact with her after I changed hangouts. Four years later, a mutual friend on Facebook (whom I was unaware of) posted that she had died of brain cancer.
When I was 20 I bought a newspaper in college and found a correction on an obituary for the girl I lost my virginity to. It said she was married and she was dead. I went straight to her wake. He told me she died of cervical cancer but I think she might of OD'd. Her dad remembered my name. He died of a broken heart within a year. They are buried together.