Has Anyone Ever Done This Before?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Tilex

Master Don Juan

Jan 27, 2019

Instead of sitting at the bar, sometimes I'll switch it up and sit in a booth to have more room while dining.

So let's say this is a casual dining restaurant, cafeteria, or coffee shop, and you see an attractive female looking for a seat, have you ever said:

"Why don't you come sit by me?"
or
"Come sit over here"
or
You become like Chris Hanson and say: "Why don't you have a seat over there?"

This is a different type of cold approach I've never tested, and have wondered about often.
If you've done this before, tell your story of what happened and how or what you said in this approach.

Last edited: Jan 27, 2019

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.