"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Has Anyone Ever Done This Before?

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Instead of sitting at the bar, sometimes I'll switch it up and sit in a booth to have more room while dining.

So let's say this is a casual dining restaurant, cafeteria, or coffee shop, and you see an attractive female looking for a seat, have you ever said:

"Why don't you come sit by me?"
or
"Come sit over here"
or
You become like Chris Hanson and say: "Why don't you have a seat over there?"

This is a different type of cold approach I've never tested, and have wondered about often.
If you've done this before, tell your story of what happened and how or what you said in this approach.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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